Bigest difference is the discharge size. Black water is 3" and grey is 1.5-1.75"...
I'd expect your grey to be 1.5". With a little DIY you could easily add a dual waste gate
like this so both grey and black waste out the same 3" bayonet outlet just as it does on any travel trailer. I had one similar to this installed on my own travel trailer, replacing the original cable actuated system which never did work all that well.
